BY ALI BABA YAKUBU
After going through an in-box message in my Facebook account from the Chief Editor of Dunia Magazine inviting me to write this piece, I had to climb on a “reminiscence horse” to travel back in time; to replay the past and how it has shaped my current values. An African proverb which states that “It takes a whole village to make a man,” holds true today and always.
As I reclined on my sofa, I recalled the day we were circumcised with a bunch of other boys when I was seven years old. I recalled the roasted chicken and delicious meals that our parents served us daily at our “circumcision camp”. I could still recall the burning fire made from dried stalks of millet, maize, and sorghum as well as firewood, which kept us warm as the harmattan winds continuously whistled through the trees into our camp. I recalled the tenderness in my mum’s eyes and the pride in my dad’s eye. I recalled the “painful joy” of not wearing any pants while on-lookers smiled our way, grandmothers fondly claiming to be our wives. As I started to punch the keys on my keyboard writing this piece, I couldn’t help but smile with nostalgia.
I can remember when we started wearing shorts after the wounds had healed, how we resumed our regular play times as we grew older, moving through leaps and bounds as group. It was great, especially during the Ramadan fasting period, when we dressed up in funny costumes and went from house to house acting out story lines at the end of which we “got paid”. This was called “tashe”, practiced ten days after the commencement of Ramadan Fasting.
In those days, I hated going to the farm even though our dad (who had retired from the Nigerian Army) hired a few laborers to help out. He wanted us to learn the fundamentals of farming and the discipline that goes with it. He encouraged us to open our minds up to learning our culture of productivity, probity, positivity, spirituality, conviviality, dexterity, non-conformity, originality, heroism and intellectual excellence: While mummy taught us compassion, to have a conscience and patience.
My home town Zuru, in Kebbi State, Nigeria has been a major source of military personnel from time immemorial. We have the highest number of Military Generals in the country even today. The major pre-occupations of our folks were farming and hunting. Within our culture were certain cultural practices geared to test the endurance of men called “Golmo”. Through this practice, men were engaged in tilling the land of their in-laws for a period of seven years. At the end of every year, wrestling competitions were held at a festival called “Uhola”. Awards were given out to winners by the High Chief of the land. While those that graduated from Golmo were joined in marriage with their wives in a colorful festive funfair. Similarly, those farmers with the highest harvests were recognized and celebrated.
Today however, Islamic and Christian influences, as well as ongoing cross-cultural marriages have all combined to whittle down the vibrancy of our cultural heritage. For instance, just like in mine, many families in Zuruland are mixed up with Fulani, Hausa and indigenous Zuru tribes. Hence, Zuruland of yesterday is not the same with Zuruland of today, just like in many other African communities; even though certain similarities still remain in percussive tunes, athletic dance steps and heroic personalities.
So, what are my values, and how have they been shaped by our cultural heritage? My values can be traced to my personal mission, thus: to serve the Almighty God in total submission; to be a source of succor and hope to humanity; to live within my legitimate means; to endure hardship and learn from it; to make this world a better place by fighting negative forces through my divergent gifts; to lift humanity above its beastly nature; and to relate with humanity in mutual respect, spiritual understanding, compassion and harmony … as epitomized by my cultural heritage.
Ali Baba Yakubu blogs on www.alibyvisions.blogspot.com
I know about those Harmattan winds bro. Hard life is sweet only in retrospect, I tell you. You have a great life story. I'm not surprised from where the principles you live by today came from. I can deduce from your writings that you have enormous depth of character and have done well to excavate weeds from your garden of knowledge. Thanks for continue to inspire me with your writings.
Like this way of learning. Thank you Dunia magazine.
Hey Nicoline, as always, it gladdens my heart me to read your comments even on a jovial pedestal. You and Lema are two of a kind: pushing humanity to excellence. Am pleased and grateful to "Heavens" for linking us up. You inspire me beyond compare.
At Lema, thanks for the "command" to write the story….lol
ha,ha,ha, Ali … we are a team. I knew you were going to come through. We have been blessed by this. Thanks so much for taking us back to Zuruland.
Ali, really nice. beautiful i must admit to go down memory lane. best wishes
Thanks Rukaiya: You guys inspire me in more ways than one. Best wishes to you and yours.
No matter which culture you are from, we have one thing in common that we are willing to be nice with people and make this world more beautiful.
Ali, always my best wishes are with you.
Thanks for sharing the stories and philosophical words with me.
I like it!
I am looking forward to more stories sharing.
By the way, i like this magazine:)
thanks for sharing your world with us, Ali…wish to read more excellent articles of yours. Have a great day!
Eric
Dear Hina,
Nice of you to say those beautiful words to me. Am highly pleased and inspired to keep sharing with and caring for humanity. Am sure lots of readers would be pleased to read stories from China. Take care. And thanks.
Lema,
Thanks to you am now a "celebrity writer from Zuruland" lol
My friends are asking me to write more. Hina from China, is not obliged to have Facebook in her country. Hence, she miss my writings there. Best wishes to you and yours in 2011 and beyond.
Mr Erik,
Thanks for your endorsement. I look forward to sharing more of my thoughts in time to come on either this medium or on Facebook if we become online pals. Thanks.